Wrong Decisions...!!!
Wrong decisions …….we all take them in life ………and these wrong decisions are the ones that bring the challenge to life …..
But when someone takes a wrong decision especially spouses ..what do u do ???
If you say ….”See I told you so that you would be wrong as always …..”
Or do you say “ What is done is done now let us find a solution ……”
Well anyday the second approach is the pefect approach !!!
Fault finding is never a solution for any problem .it makes things worse and may even bring in more wrong decisions …….
But if you tread the second path ………then wonders work right in front of your eyes ….
Can reminding a fault bring in a solution … never but if you support him or her when she realizes that she or he was wrong then there is nothing that can match this .
Supprting a right decisions and its rewards is child play but it takes a lot of love , commitment and courage and patience to support the consequences of a mistake !!!
It gives an unsaid message that am with you through all your hardships and I have loved not only you but your faults too ………
And maybe just maybe ..the next time a decision is made your opinion would be important and your views would be respected
So next time before you say “ I told you so .’ think twice because maybe tomorrow the bottle would point to you !!!
But when someone takes a wrong decision especially spouses ..what do u do ???
If you say ….”See I told you so that you would be wrong as always …..”
Or do you say “ What is done is done now let us find a solution ……”
Well anyday the second approach is the pefect approach !!!
Fault finding is never a solution for any problem .it makes things worse and may even bring in more wrong decisions …….
But if you tread the second path ………then wonders work right in front of your eyes ….
Can reminding a fault bring in a solution … never but if you support him or her when she realizes that she or he was wrong then there is nothing that can match this .
Supprting a right decisions and its rewards is child play but it takes a lot of love , commitment and courage and patience to support the consequences of a mistake !!!
It gives an unsaid message that am with you through all your hardships and I have loved not only you but your faults too ………
And maybe just maybe ..the next time a decision is made your opinion would be important and your views would be respected
So next time before you say “ I told you so .’ think twice because maybe tomorrow the bottle would point to you !!!
Comments
You are completely correct in your assessment and the second solution helps carry the relationship further & smoothly. Sometimes we do things at the spur of the moment and when we realise maybe its too late, so at that moment without finding fault on our other partner, if we try to find a solution, its better for both but it does require a lot of understanding, commitment and love between both the partners, so that it does not repeat again and yes its true the solution works and it does give a lot of satisfaction to both the partners when you realise & understand your own mistakes & prevent it from doing the next time.